Missed Opportunities
Missed Opportunities. Thoughts On How a BDSM Session Could Have Been Better.
I am referring to this one:
https://sv.xhamstervideo.net/videos/slavegirl-daniella-bdsm-3778312
Watching the model Daniella's reactions, it is amazing how she absorbs the pain. Her reactions, especially where the clamps are removed from her nipples and labia are quite wonderful in the control that she exerts over herself: the roll of the eyes, the deep sharp inhalations, as if it is a point of pride for her not to vocally display or find release in crying out. She internalises the experience. The 'Dom' is not alive enough to her responses though. The nipples need to be worked in some way as the blood rushes back in to them, to exacerbate - or alleviate - that intense 'pins and needles' experience. It is in the release of those clamping implements that opportunity lies, and this is so often missed by inattentive and insensitive 'masters'. At least, towards the end, he gives her nipples a bit of attention when he removes the suction cups. But not much, and rather insensitively. He lacks sustained focus and attunement.
It is all too depressingly often the case that the 'Masters' do not deserve the title or the privilege of the position they are in. Having said that, the one in this instance does take time in trying to find inventive ways to stimulate his charge. He deserves some credit for that. And the tonality of his voice is interesting, even if the sound quality is too poor to make out much of what he says. I appreciate the moments where he checks with her for her wordless approval to his next move. Her ever so slight nods. They are obviously working to pre-agreed parameters of behaviour. She is clearly a professional and has been hired for this session. The guy is pretty unattractive though, in the main. But again, that is so often the case: it is another level of what the people in the 'sub' role have to endure: rather lumpen and brutish 'Doms'.
And it is a great pity that she felt the need to have her breasts augmented. I enjoy her upper body strength, the tension in her muscular arms and across her broad shoulders. She is a splendidly lithe and fit young woman. But for me the most impressive part is her face. There's such a lot going on in her face. She deserves attentive viewers. This is quite a studied session on the whole. In places it approaches the nuance and depth that I believe great BDSM practice must be able to attain.
The tension when he has clamped her upper groin and is vibing her sex is palpable. It is a really interesting study of the pleasure/pain boundary at that point. She really excels here. Her self-control and endurance, her comportment, demeanour in general. She proceeds to climax on the vibe, or to deliver an impressive simulation for the sake of providing the scenario with an appropriate crescendo, professional that she is. But her 'Dom' did not 'touch' her in the main, for all his fiddling at her outer edges. As is so often the case in these scenarios, she deserved so much better. The 'Sub' is so much more powerful than the 'Dom'.
I am referring to this one:
https://sv.xhamstervideo.net/videos/slavegirl-daniella-bdsm-3778312
Watching the model Daniella's reactions, it is amazing how she absorbs the pain. Her reactions, especially where the clamps are removed from her nipples and labia are quite wonderful in the control that she exerts over herself: the roll of the eyes, the deep sharp inhalations, as if it is a point of pride for her not to vocally display or find release in crying out. She internalises the experience. The 'Dom' is not alive enough to her responses though. The nipples need to be worked in some way as the blood rushes back in to them, to exacerbate - or alleviate - that intense 'pins and needles' experience. It is in the release of those clamping implements that opportunity lies, and this is so often missed by inattentive and insensitive 'masters'. At least, towards the end, he gives her nipples a bit of attention when he removes the suction cups. But not much, and rather insensitively. He lacks sustained focus and attunement.
It is all too depressingly often the case that the 'Masters' do not deserve the title or the privilege of the position they are in. Having said that, the one in this instance does take time in trying to find inventive ways to stimulate his charge. He deserves some credit for that. And the tonality of his voice is interesting, even if the sound quality is too poor to make out much of what he says. I appreciate the moments where he checks with her for her wordless approval to his next move. Her ever so slight nods. They are obviously working to pre-agreed parameters of behaviour. She is clearly a professional and has been hired for this session. The guy is pretty unattractive though, in the main. But again, that is so often the case: it is another level of what the people in the 'sub' role have to endure: rather lumpen and brutish 'Doms'.
And it is a great pity that she felt the need to have her breasts augmented. I enjoy her upper body strength, the tension in her muscular arms and across her broad shoulders. She is a splendidly lithe and fit young woman. But for me the most impressive part is her face. There's such a lot going on in her face. She deserves attentive viewers. This is quite a studied session on the whole. In places it approaches the nuance and depth that I believe great BDSM practice must be able to attain.
The tension when he has clamped her upper groin and is vibing her sex is palpable. It is a really interesting study of the pleasure/pain boundary at that point. She really excels here. Her self-control and endurance, her comportment, demeanour in general. She proceeds to climax on the vibe, or to deliver an impressive simulation for the sake of providing the scenario with an appropriate crescendo, professional that she is. But her 'Dom' did not 'touch' her in the main, for all his fiddling at her outer edges. As is so often the case in these scenarios, she deserved so much better. The 'Sub' is so much more powerful than the 'Dom'.
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