Chastity begins - A diary, hopefully.
I've been coming here on and off for years but today is the first chance I have had to post a genuine experience.
I have been with my new partner for quite some time and eventually felt comfortable enough to bring up the subject of chastity play.
She was shocked at first but eventually acquiesced and allowed me to buy a cage. She was not comfortable and it died a death.
I'd gone as far as buying her a lockable jewellery case and a combination padlock to keep the key in because let’s face it, as good as it looks on a necklace or anklet, a big key hanging there isn't pretty.
I also bought her a 'lock & key' anklet so at least I have a visual reminder even if it's not the real key. Of course, there is still the thrill of others knowing what it's for.
We'd looked over some videos, images and websites but she was always reluctant.
Out of the blue this evening 30th September, she came to me. “I've been thinking. I would like to give chastity a try. On my terms, not how those obvious fakes and freaks do it.” She had read an article from a poster at LoveHoney and one from neocities called ‘The Secret to a Happy Marriage’, (PM me if you want the exact links).
She asked me to get out the cage and put it on. It is a metal open cage with a ‘pepperpot’ style end to keep my foreskin in check.
After a bit of fiddling and some baby lotion, it went on.
Such a fantastic feeling when she turned the lock and with a small amount of resistance, the key slid out.
She then dropped the key into the jewellery box and snapped the combi lock shut.
Then, even more surprising for me she put her foot up on my thigh and handed me the anklet to put on her leg.
She's gone out for the evening. I am looking forward to tonight.
1st October.
She returned from a night out with her friends at about midnight last night. I was already in bed. We reached out for each other My hands wandered over her body and she placed her hand on my stomach before tracing it down to my cage. She patted it and said goodnight.
My night was relatively comfortable, only a couple of awakenings from attempted night time erections. We both woke at about the same time. When I brought in her coffee, she told me what the rules would be:
She gets to choose any future device.
It is to be referred to as the cage.
She will hold the keys to the cage and will not make them accessible to me unless supervised, although a sealed emergency key is allowed.
She decides when I will be unlocked, allowed sex, or allowed to cum.
After unlocking, she will expect me to refit the chastity device as soon as possible for immediate locking.
I am not to ask for release and there will be no discussions about chastity unless she brings it up.
Chastity play will not intrude into her daily life or restrict her own sexual satisfaction.
We are going to do this for a minimum of three months. New year’s Eve, the anniversary of our first meeting.
Then she pulled back the duvet and said, “lick me.” The session ended with me using a vibrator on her to orgasm whilst she fondled my balls and caged cock.
No orgasm for me.
I have been with my new partner for quite some time and eventually felt comfortable enough to bring up the subject of chastity play.
She was shocked at first but eventually acquiesced and allowed me to buy a cage. She was not comfortable and it died a death.
I'd gone as far as buying her a lockable jewellery case and a combination padlock to keep the key in because let’s face it, as good as it looks on a necklace or anklet, a big key hanging there isn't pretty.
I also bought her a 'lock & key' anklet so at least I have a visual reminder even if it's not the real key. Of course, there is still the thrill of others knowing what it's for.
We'd looked over some videos, images and websites but she was always reluctant.
Out of the blue this evening 30th September, she came to me. “I've been thinking. I would like to give chastity a try. On my terms, not how those obvious fakes and freaks do it.” She had read an article from a poster at LoveHoney and one from neocities called ‘The Secret to a Happy Marriage’, (PM me if you want the exact links).
She asked me to get out the cage and put it on. It is a metal open cage with a ‘pepperpot’ style end to keep my foreskin in check.
After a bit of fiddling and some baby lotion, it went on.
Such a fantastic feeling when she turned the lock and with a small amount of resistance, the key slid out.
She then dropped the key into the jewellery box and snapped the combi lock shut.
Then, even more surprising for me she put her foot up on my thigh and handed me the anklet to put on her leg.
She's gone out for the evening. I am looking forward to tonight.
1st October.
She returned from a night out with her friends at about midnight last night. I was already in bed. We reached out for each other My hands wandered over her body and she placed her hand on my stomach before tracing it down to my cage. She patted it and said goodnight.
My night was relatively comfortable, only a couple of awakenings from attempted night time erections. We both woke at about the same time. When I brought in her coffee, she told me what the rules would be:
She gets to choose any future device.
It is to be referred to as the cage.
She will hold the keys to the cage and will not make them accessible to me unless supervised, although a sealed emergency key is allowed.
She decides when I will be unlocked, allowed sex, or allowed to cum.
After unlocking, she will expect me to refit the chastity device as soon as possible for immediate locking.
I am not to ask for release and there will be no discussions about chastity unless she brings it up.
Chastity play will not intrude into her daily life or restrict her own sexual satisfaction.
We are going to do this for a minimum of three months. New year’s Eve, the anniversary of our first meeting.
Then she pulled back the duvet and said, “lick me.” The session ended with me using a vibrator on her to orgasm whilst she fondled my balls and caged cock.
No orgasm for me.
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