New Guy- New Fear
So there is a new Real Man in “my” wife’s life. We know him as Jaymal. That is a nickname I believe, but he says we call him that so we call him that. He is a Nubian Power who is well built over 6 feet tall and according to my wife hung like a horse, and that is saying something. He is in his mid to late 30s. The Wife met him working as a consultant on a project. She works project consulting to keep busy and make extra money to keep her wardrobe sexy and her heels high.
Well they hit it off and started hanging out. About 2 weeks after they met we found ourselves at a cookout at his house. At the start it was a mix of coworkers and few friends. There was one other middle aged white couple and we all stood out. The rest seemed to be younger 20 somethings. Around 8 the party had cleared out and it was the two white couples, counting us, and Jaymal. By 8:30 myself and the other white husband were sitting at a little table on the back patio watching Jaymal, the white wives playing horse shoes. We husbands were talking and out of the blue The Wife came over whispered to stay outside with the other white boi. Then in a stern whisper she said, “don’t come inside for any reason got it?” I nodded yes and she nibbled my ear and followed Jaymal and the other white woman inside.
At some point in the evening I had noticed that the other white couple had shiny sterling silver bands with two large round black onyx stones under a larger oval black onyx stone and two white stones set next to the Black Stones at the top of the band. The bands were more feminine wedding band style, but all both the male and female of the couple had the bands on their hands. I commented to Bob (not his name) asking if the ring was his grandmother’s. He smiled and said no, it is a lady’s ring but not an heirloom. So after the white ladies and Jaymal went inside we white “men” started having fruity mixed whiskey drinks. After a few drinks the conversation became comfortable and open.
I finally asked, “Do you know what a cuckold is?” That started the candid conversation. So for the next two hours of drinking and peeing behind a tree I learned a lot. He explained Jaymal has Bob and his wife and Jaymal also “keeps.” Another couple in the south side of our state, where he has to travel regularly for work and a third white couple in Utah, another place he travels to work.
I also learned Jaymal likes to collect divorces as a trophy. So of the three white couples he “keeps” one is legally divorced and one in Utah is supposedly looking at a divorce.
Bob explained that Jaymal loves the idea of make white couples divorce and then take control of them and put the hubby in a place he can’t get out of. Bob explained that he was divorced and yet still her husband. He added that he and his wife moved their driver’s license and car titles to Jaymal’s address and then after three months they would be told when to file to make sure they got the right judge. He was given the number of “his lawyer”. A white woman who Jaymal “knows” Bob claimed. The he met his “lawyer” and got the “agreed to” divorce decree they would petition to the court with. As you can guess the decree is not good for the white hubby.
Bob or his estate has to pay Alimony until 2050, each year the rate goes up by 5 percent. Bob’s wife gets the house, one car, 75 percent of all retirement and investments. He also had to stipulate and attest in open court that he had perpetrated physical and mental abuse on his for their entire marriage and that he felt this justified the settlement. The judge agreed and his “lawyer” argued that it may not be enough. This degree gives the wife a cudgel over him. He gets a room in the basement because she gets so much. That is a private contract separate of the divorce. With the stipulations she could call the cops and have him arrested at any time without any issues, just break a few things and slap her arm and ex hubby goes away. After three hours Jaymal came out and told us to clean up and stay upstairs. We cleaned his house up and then around 1 am The Wife came up from the basement and we left. I later learned from Kris that the rings are a marriage symbol and compact under Jaymal.
Well they hit it off and started hanging out. About 2 weeks after they met we found ourselves at a cookout at his house. At the start it was a mix of coworkers and few friends. There was one other middle aged white couple and we all stood out. The rest seemed to be younger 20 somethings. Around 8 the party had cleared out and it was the two white couples, counting us, and Jaymal. By 8:30 myself and the other white husband were sitting at a little table on the back patio watching Jaymal, the white wives playing horse shoes. We husbands were talking and out of the blue The Wife came over whispered to stay outside with the other white boi. Then in a stern whisper she said, “don’t come inside for any reason got it?” I nodded yes and she nibbled my ear and followed Jaymal and the other white woman inside.
At some point in the evening I had noticed that the other white couple had shiny sterling silver bands with two large round black onyx stones under a larger oval black onyx stone and two white stones set next to the Black Stones at the top of the band. The bands were more feminine wedding band style, but all both the male and female of the couple had the bands on their hands. I commented to Bob (not his name) asking if the ring was his grandmother’s. He smiled and said no, it is a lady’s ring but not an heirloom. So after the white ladies and Jaymal went inside we white “men” started having fruity mixed whiskey drinks. After a few drinks the conversation became comfortable and open.
I finally asked, “Do you know what a cuckold is?” That started the candid conversation. So for the next two hours of drinking and peeing behind a tree I learned a lot. He explained Jaymal has Bob and his wife and Jaymal also “keeps.” Another couple in the south side of our state, where he has to travel regularly for work and a third white couple in Utah, another place he travels to work.
I also learned Jaymal likes to collect divorces as a trophy. So of the three white couples he “keeps” one is legally divorced and one in Utah is supposedly looking at a divorce.
Bob explained that Jaymal loves the idea of make white couples divorce and then take control of them and put the hubby in a place he can’t get out of. Bob explained that he was divorced and yet still her husband. He added that he and his wife moved their driver’s license and car titles to Jaymal’s address and then after three months they would be told when to file to make sure they got the right judge. He was given the number of “his lawyer”. A white woman who Jaymal “knows” Bob claimed. The he met his “lawyer” and got the “agreed to” divorce decree they would petition to the court with. As you can guess the decree is not good for the white hubby.
Bob or his estate has to pay Alimony until 2050, each year the rate goes up by 5 percent. Bob’s wife gets the house, one car, 75 percent of all retirement and investments. He also had to stipulate and attest in open court that he had perpetrated physical and mental abuse on his for their entire marriage and that he felt this justified the settlement. The judge agreed and his “lawyer” argued that it may not be enough. This degree gives the wife a cudgel over him. He gets a room in the basement because she gets so much. That is a private contract separate of the divorce. With the stipulations she could call the cops and have him arrested at any time without any issues, just break a few things and slap her arm and ex hubby goes away. After three hours Jaymal came out and told us to clean up and stay upstairs. We cleaned his house up and then around 1 am The Wife came up from the basement and we left. I later learned from Kris that the rings are a marriage symbol and compact under Jaymal.
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